I finished reading this book finally. I started the first couple of pages on the way to Japan last time, and it got me crying in the airport and the last few pages left me crying unconsolably.
The extend a Sultan went through to realize a hadith left me speechless.
"Lataftahanna al-Qustantiniyya wa lani`ma al-amiru amiruha wa lani`ma
al-jayshu dhalika al-jaysh."
"Verily you shall conquer Constantinople. What a wonderful leader will her
leader be, and what a wonderful army will that army be!"
It started with the father of Sultan Muhammad Al-Fateh, in which he was devastated as he couldn't conquer Constantinople. He asked if he was not a good leader, and that was when the people said he was indeed a good leader. And that they predicted that his son would be the one to conquer the city.
When Sultan Muhammad Al-Fateh was born, his father's mission was for him to achieve akhirat as well as duniawi. Juggling between leadership and religion and the skills of becoming a great army.
At the same time, they monitored closely to ensure they had the greatest army, those whom obey Islamic's rules. Those who woke up every night for Solat sunat, and obeyed their Sultan's instructions like no other.
When they have a great army already, their mission was to have a good rakyat. Both the father and Sultan Muhammad Al-Fateh pretended to be normal citizens to study about their rakyat. And they worked hard to stop all the corruptions and the things the rakyat did that were the opposite of Islam.
Until finally the Sultan achieved his victory with much hardship and faith towards the Almighty. Masha Allah.
Among the last pages of the book, when the Sultan managed to conquer the Aya Sophia church and turned it into a mosque, he looked for someone to be the first Imam for the mosque.
He asked the hundred thousands of his army, "Who among you have ever missed five times a day solat, please sit down."
None of them sat down, people. NONE.
Then he asked, "Who among you have ever missed solat sunat rawwatib, please sit down."
Half of his army sat down.
Then he asked, ""Who among you have ever missed solat sunat tahajjud, please sit down."
Everybody sat down except him. A Sultan. God knows how busy he was. But yettt... Huwaaaa..
That left me crying. Insaf sangaattttt!! :( And so he became the first imam for the mosque.
A must read, darlings. A must.
This blog is a "head fake" for my little hafizahs ♥ Khaira Asyikin ♥ Aisha Asyikin ♥
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Tuesday, March 11, 2014
Things to buy for confinement
Okay, since I think I could do so much better than the last confinement, these are the list of the things I would like to buy for my second confinement:
1. Pilis
Because I just so love it during my first. It helps reduce the dizziness especially earlier when we're losing blood.
2. Minyak Panas/Tapil
I shall give this one a try considering many people recommend this.
3. Disposable panties
Especially for earlier stage of confinement because I can't afford ruining my normal panties. Haha.
4. Coswas Alzara sea salt
Because I really hope this time around my wound would heal faster
5. Tungku baby
6. Sitz bath
Anyone know where I can find this? Went to Princecourt but they refused to sell it unless I give birth at their hospital :(
7. Maternity pad
Lots and lots of them.
8. Socks
9. Indoor shoes
10. Jeli Gamat
Anyone ever try this?
11. Shaklee confinement set
12. Set mandian
Any suggestion of brand?
13. Confinement book
Because I just so love it during my first. It helps reduce the dizziness especially earlier when we're losing blood.
I shall give this one a try considering many people recommend this.
Especially for earlier stage of confinement because I can't afford ruining my normal panties. Haha.
Because I really hope this time around my wound would heal faster
Anyone know where I can find this? Went to Princecourt but they refused to sell it unless I give birth at their hospital :(
Lots and lots of them.
8. Socks
Anyone ever try this?
Any suggestion of brand?
Sunday, March 9, 2014
Pray for MH370
It was a gloomy day especially last night.
Be safe, MH370. Please come home. My thoughts and prayers are with the cabin crews and the passengers.
And stop all the speculations guys. It's time for us to come together, even our neighbors understand that needs.
Be safe, MH370. Please come home. My thoughts and prayers are with the cabin crews and the passengers.
And stop all the speculations guys. It's time for us to come together, even our neighbors understand that needs.
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
From digital flashcard to book: How I teach my toddler Hijaiyah
Yesterday marks one of the happiest day in my life.
Considering I was a working mother doing my PhD part time at the beginning of Khaira's life, I didn't have much time to spend with Khaira to teach her Hijaiyah everyday.
5 minutes every day (I try my best to make it a daily thingy but to be honest max is only 4 times a week), that's all I could afford at that time.
I started when she was 1 y.o. But I discovered bringing the flashcards everywhere was a chaos. She started biting them, spoiling food over them, I know I should just let it be, but urmm.. OCD much?
So I decided to be creative.. I downloaded this apps..
Since every time the hijaiyah appears, it produces a sound, I decided to print screen each Hijaiyah and use it somewhat like flashcard to my little girl. Because you bring your phone everywhere, I can do it at my own convenience.
Teaching her aa, ba, ta to ya was an exciting task. She was very obedient and excited everytime I took out my phone. Because the reward is that, she can watch Barney from my phone afterwards. Only that, I found Barqy method works easily for her compared to Furqan. Probably because the set of letters they introduced were closer to her heart.
Began with, "Na, ma, sa, ya". Then, "Ka, ta, ja, wa." 4 letters a week, then I switched.
The challenge came when I was teaching her fatha, qasra and dhamma (tanda atas, baris dan depan). But I figured, persistent is the key. I found doa helps me increase my patient and in the end, I am always at peace every time I teach her. Because they said you absorbed more when you're happy.
In the end, we want them to respect us, not scared of us.
I was in my morning (make it all day) sickness during her fatha, qasra and dhamma stage. I could barely find time to teach her because I was so busy vomiting throughout the night.
I downloaded this app called My First Iqra',
Did a little editing using my Note (I'm so in love with my Note 2, she's 14 months today!), and I taught her whenever I was well. Sometimes by the side of the road while waiting for my sate.
Then, I figured I was done with flashcards, let's give Furqan book a try. My first attempt yesterday made me a proud mother until now..
Alhamdulillah :) Penat lelah felt so worth it!! Who thought 5 minutes every other day and now she's at this stage.
Lepas ni huruf sambung pula, doakan :)
Considering I was a working mother doing my PhD part time at the beginning of Khaira's life, I didn't have much time to spend with Khaira to teach her Hijaiyah everyday.
5 minutes every day (I try my best to make it a daily thingy but to be honest max is only 4 times a week), that's all I could afford at that time.
I started when she was 1 y.o. But I discovered bringing the flashcards everywhere was a chaos. She started biting them, spoiling food over them, I know I should just let it be, but urmm.. OCD much?
So I decided to be creative.. I downloaded this apps..
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| Alif Ba Ta Sign One |
Teaching her aa, ba, ta to ya was an exciting task. She was very obedient and excited everytime I took out my phone. Because the reward is that, she can watch Barney from my phone afterwards. Only that, I found Barqy method works easily for her compared to Furqan. Probably because the set of letters they introduced were closer to her heart.
Began with, "Na, ma, sa, ya". Then, "Ka, ta, ja, wa." 4 letters a week, then I switched.
The challenge came when I was teaching her fatha, qasra and dhamma (tanda atas, baris dan depan). But I figured, persistent is the key. I found doa helps me increase my patient and in the end, I am always at peace every time I teach her. Because they said you absorbed more when you're happy.
In the end, we want them to respect us, not scared of us.
I was in my morning (make it all day) sickness during her fatha, qasra and dhamma stage. I could barely find time to teach her because I was so busy vomiting throughout the night.
I downloaded this app called My First Iqra',
Did a little editing using my Note (I'm so in love with my Note 2, she's 14 months today!), and I taught her whenever I was well. Sometimes by the side of the road while waiting for my sate.
Then, I figured I was done with flashcards, let's give Furqan book a try. My first attempt yesterday made me a proud mother until now..
Alhamdulillah :) Penat lelah felt so worth it!! Who thought 5 minutes every other day and now she's at this stage.
Lepas ni huruf sambung pula, doakan :)
Monday, February 24, 2014
Kursus right brain from ipn - A review
Last Saturday, Love and I went to Kursus Right Brain from ipn, the speaker was non other than Puan Lina. My verdict..
WORTH EVERY CENT!!
We learned so much in such short period. Sharing with you here, I guess was not as exciting as attending the course yourself. Masya Allah.. so much activities that will just open your eyes like never before :)
Nonetheless, I'm gonna share with you the gist of the talk.
Right brain is important because it enhances your long term memorization, awareness and imagination. Most of the time, our right brain capability decreases from 6 years old and above and as we get older, our right brain tends to go to sleep. This is because our education system is mostly based on left brain. So, we need to stimulate our children's right brain so that they use both sides of brain equally.
What I learned from the talk:
1. Memorization
Puan Lina introduced simple memorization game that I already tried for Khaira.
As of now, we arranged two cards of different colours and we asked Khaira to copy that same combination. It took a while for her to understand the game.
A few days later, once she understand, you arrange back the two cards of different combination, let her see it for a few seconds. Then, hide the combination and see if she can memorize the same combination and arrange the cards herself.
If she can, you decrease the time for her to look at the card before you hide it and put more combinations.
Simple as that. Very practical and doable.
Then, you can try to ask her to memorize combination of alphabets, numbers or even pictures.
2. Pegging
I honestly think I'm good at memorizing things, Alhamdulillah. If you give me a combination of things, in shaa Allah I can memorize it.. Short term.
How to still remember it tomorrow (long term)?
Here's the trick Puan Lina taught us. Memory pegging. First, you need to peg each number to each thing. It can be anything but make sure you remember it for the rest of your life.
Example:
1. Unicorn
2. Bicycle
3. Triangle
And here's the list of things that you need to remember:
1. Egg
2. Bread
3. Milk
How to memorize it in sequence and in a long term is to peg the thing that you need to memorize to the pegging that you created. Create a story, the more ridiculous the story is, the better.
Example:
1. There's an egg stuck at the end of the unicorn's horn
2. A bicycle that sells bread macam Bai Roti
3. The triangle shape of the box of your milk
It can even apply to other languages, we tried that in class. Works like magic :) Only that you need to create a story fast, and like almost any other things in the world, that takes a lot of practice.
3. Linking
If you need to memorize a series of pictures, try to make a story out of it.
Let's say I ask you to memorize a picture of a rabbit, a house, a strawberry, a flower, and a cup of hot chocolate.
Link each picture together and create a story out of it.
For example, a rabbit enters a house that smells like strawberry, but actually it is a smell of a flower inside a cup of hot chocolate.
Easy peasy, I memorized ten random pictures in a jiffy, how cool is that? Still remember the pictures that I memorized last Saturday up to the point I typed my post.
4. Memorize numbers in a group.
If I give you a random set of numbers:
92846090
How fast can you memorize this set?
The tip is to memorize it in a group.
Try and it works for me!!
5. Speed reading
Reading is my passion. In average I believe I read one book a month. I don't have a problem with speed reading.
But it's a skill that can be easily mastered if you teach your children how to do it.
Rather than reading each word with a stop, try to increase to make it two words with a stop, then 3. Eventually in the end, you'll just read the whole sentence or paragraph at one go.
6. Awareness
Creating awareness to your children towards their surrounding helps stimulating their right brain as well.
For example, show this flash card to them to teach them A, B, C.
Then, hide the flashcard and ask the following questions to exercise their brain to be alert all the time.
Examples:
1. What colour is the ape?
2. How many legs of the apes can you see?
That's all for my sharing session today. Good luck Mommies!! Please please please join her class if you have the opportunity to, very inspiring la this lady!
WORTH EVERY CENT!!
We learned so much in such short period. Sharing with you here, I guess was not as exciting as attending the course yourself. Masya Allah.. so much activities that will just open your eyes like never before :)
Nonetheless, I'm gonna share with you the gist of the talk.
Right brain is important because it enhances your long term memorization, awareness and imagination. Most of the time, our right brain capability decreases from 6 years old and above and as we get older, our right brain tends to go to sleep. This is because our education system is mostly based on left brain. So, we need to stimulate our children's right brain so that they use both sides of brain equally.
What I learned from the talk:
1. Memorization
Puan Lina introduced simple memorization game that I already tried for Khaira.
As of now, we arranged two cards of different colours and we asked Khaira to copy that same combination. It took a while for her to understand the game.
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| Home made memorization game for Lil K |
If she can, you decrease the time for her to look at the card before you hide it and put more combinations.
Simple as that. Very practical and doable.
Then, you can try to ask her to memorize combination of alphabets, numbers or even pictures.
2. Pegging
I honestly think I'm good at memorizing things, Alhamdulillah. If you give me a combination of things, in shaa Allah I can memorize it.. Short term.
How to still remember it tomorrow (long term)?
Here's the trick Puan Lina taught us. Memory pegging. First, you need to peg each number to each thing. It can be anything but make sure you remember it for the rest of your life.
Example:
1. Unicorn
2. Bicycle
3. Triangle
And here's the list of things that you need to remember:
1. Egg
2. Bread
3. Milk
How to memorize it in sequence and in a long term is to peg the thing that you need to memorize to the pegging that you created. Create a story, the more ridiculous the story is, the better.
Example:
1. There's an egg stuck at the end of the unicorn's horn
2. A bicycle that sells bread macam Bai Roti
3. The triangle shape of the box of your milk
It can even apply to other languages, we tried that in class. Works like magic :) Only that you need to create a story fast, and like almost any other things in the world, that takes a lot of practice.
3. Linking
If you need to memorize a series of pictures, try to make a story out of it.
Let's say I ask you to memorize a picture of a rabbit, a house, a strawberry, a flower, and a cup of hot chocolate.
Link each picture together and create a story out of it.
For example, a rabbit enters a house that smells like strawberry, but actually it is a smell of a flower inside a cup of hot chocolate.
Easy peasy, I memorized ten random pictures in a jiffy, how cool is that? Still remember the pictures that I memorized last Saturday up to the point I typed my post.
4. Memorize numbers in a group.
If I give you a random set of numbers:
92846090
How fast can you memorize this set?
The tip is to memorize it in a group.
Try and it works for me!!
5. Speed reading
Reading is my passion. In average I believe I read one book a month. I don't have a problem with speed reading.
But it's a skill that can be easily mastered if you teach your children how to do it.
Rather than reading each word with a stop, try to increase to make it two words with a stop, then 3. Eventually in the end, you'll just read the whole sentence or paragraph at one go.
6. Awareness
Creating awareness to your children towards their surrounding helps stimulating their right brain as well.
For example, show this flash card to them to teach them A, B, C.
Then, hide the flashcard and ask the following questions to exercise their brain to be alert all the time.
Examples:
1. What colour is the ape?
2. How many legs of the apes can you see?
That's all for my sharing session today. Good luck Mommies!! Please please please join her class if you have the opportunity to, very inspiring la this lady!
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Thursday, February 20, 2014
So in love.
It's been a while since I last update on my Lil ones.
It's been a devastating beginning of year for me. A few weeks ago, my uncle was diagnosed to have 4th stage lung cancer and he passed away 2 days after. A week afterwards.. my aunt passed away due to high blood pressure. Hence the silence.
I haven't even over Uncle Mi whom passed away on my birthday.. Khaira still asked every now and then, "Lama Tok Mi tak datang.. kenapa?"
Khaira is healthy as always Alhamdulillah. Getting more intelligent. About to master her fatha, qasra, and dhamma. Manja as ever.
During my morning sickness moment she would always check on me, "ibu ok? Nak muntah ke?" And massaged me here and there. So like Abi.
She found joy feeding me my acid folic every night. Last night I was so tired I fell asleep first. She was about to fall asleep in my arms when she whispered, "Ibu.."
I opened my eyes and those were her following words, "belum makan ubat."
So with all might, she got out the bed, took all the hassle to get my medicine and religiously feed me the acid folic.
How to not love this girl. She's an angel. Alhamdulillah.
It's been a devastating beginning of year for me. A few weeks ago, my uncle was diagnosed to have 4th stage lung cancer and he passed away 2 days after. A week afterwards.. my aunt passed away due to high blood pressure. Hence the silence.
I haven't even over Uncle Mi whom passed away on my birthday.. Khaira still asked every now and then, "Lama Tok Mi tak datang.. kenapa?"
Khaira is healthy as always Alhamdulillah. Getting more intelligent. About to master her fatha, qasra, and dhamma. Manja as ever.
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| The only time I brought her to my lab and yay she behaves well!! |
During my morning sickness moment she would always check on me, "ibu ok? Nak muntah ke?" And massaged me here and there. So like Abi.
She found joy feeding me my acid folic every night. Last night I was so tired I fell asleep first. She was about to fall asleep in my arms when she whispered, "Ibu.."
I opened my eyes and those were her following words, "belum makan ubat."
So with all might, she got out the bed, took all the hassle to get my medicine and religiously feed me the acid folic.
How to not love this girl. She's an angel. Alhamdulillah.
Monday, February 17, 2014
My talk on "Finishing PhD on time - how I did it"
The story must be a little bit basi by this time around. Gosh I was sooo busy.. feel like I'm still doing my phd. Catching with the aftermaths of phd, the projects that I cleverly committed myself into, the professional engineeringship I was chasing and of course the gentle birth I'm preparing myself for.
Exhausted.
Yet the talk I gave for my uni on how I finish my phd on time was an excellent one. Omg I got so many positive vibes afterwards, overwhelming with people came from other uni as well to thank me and hugs me. Overflowed with emails and whatsapps.
I was so flattered and happy to have the opportunity to inspire people. I guess when you make people happy you're just thousand times happier.
Some of my lecturers during bachelor degree messaged me afterwards to congratulate on the success of the talk. But I must say this one brings tears to my eyes.. and boy was I glad I made him proud.
The uni is in progress of publishing the video online. Will share with you the link in shaa Allah. :) and will share more on the content of the talk. So busy I actualy typed this in the middle of my conference.
Exhausted.
Yet the talk I gave for my uni on how I finish my phd on time was an excellent one. Omg I got so many positive vibes afterwards, overwhelming with people came from other uni as well to thank me and hugs me. Overflowed with emails and whatsapps.
I was so flattered and happy to have the opportunity to inspire people. I guess when you make people happy you're just thousand times happier.
Some of my lecturers during bachelor degree messaged me afterwards to congratulate on the success of the talk. But I must say this one brings tears to my eyes.. and boy was I glad I made him proud.
The uni is in progress of publishing the video online. Will share with you the link in shaa Allah. :) and will share more on the content of the talk. So busy I actualy typed this in the middle of my conference.
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