So, I've received quite a number of emails of strangers wanting to collaborate with me.
Those times when I was innocent and carefree, I accepted them all happily. I'm glad because I've learned a lot.
Nowadays, I chose those surrounding me very carefully. Because as you mature, you know what you can tolerate and cannot. And my standards of ok is quite high; hence I know who can tolerate me and cannot. Two ways there.
Previously, I love the challenges of moulding something raw. Nowadays, my schedule became hectic and I realized moulding something with no disciplines and proper attitude consume more energy than moulding something with less technical background. I prefer to channel my energy somewhere worthwhile.
"Why are you not replying his email?" Somebody I respected asked me that question when I was in a workshop just now. An institution wanted to collaborate with us, and I haven't replied them yet.
"I need time to think about it," I answered sheepishly.
"You don't look too keen!" He accused me. But I guess I'm pretty transparent.
"I just need time, Sir," I laughed.
Then he said something that I feel the need to share in my blog instantly.
"Are you reluctant to reply his email?" He asked and I nodded.
"Then it reflects your heart. Your heart already tells you the decision."
Relate back to blink.
What your heart tells you. Your instinct is more powerful than your brain.
As I publish this post, my mind already looking for words to reply the stranger's email.
And it shall begin with..
"Dear Sir, I'm honoured to receive your email but I regret to inform you that.."
This blog is a "head fake" for my little hafizahs ♥ Khaira Asyikin ♥ Aisha Asyikin ♥
Thursday, August 6, 2015
Saturday, July 25, 2015
Not a penny more, not a penny less - A review
Read the second book of Jeffery Archer, I must say that his style of writing becomes kind of predictable.
Not that it's a bad thing because he really knows how to draw the readers attention. But it's like a formula to it already, you know.
Not a penny more, not a penny less is about 4 strangers who thought they were being conned by a muti millionaire, Metcalfe. So they made 4 different plans to get back their money from Metcalfe at exact amount, not a penny more, not a penny less.
The idea makes it look like my kinda book.
But with Archer, he prefers the unnecesary details more than the necessary ones. So, the execution of the plans were very brief making it to have less climax for me.
Oh well, I rate this 3 over 5. Sorry Archer!
Not that it's a bad thing because he really knows how to draw the readers attention. But it's like a formula to it already, you know.
Not a penny more, not a penny less is about 4 strangers who thought they were being conned by a muti millionaire, Metcalfe. So they made 4 different plans to get back their money from Metcalfe at exact amount, not a penny more, not a penny less.
The idea makes it look like my kinda book.
But with Archer, he prefers the unnecesary details more than the necessary ones. So, the execution of the plans were very brief making it to have less climax for me.
Oh well, I rate this 3 over 5. Sorry Archer!
Khaira qatams Al Barqy!
At 3y9m.. Khaira qatams Al Barqy and started her Quran already. Alhamdulillah. Yet to be fluent. In a mean while, needs 5 mins practice everyday still.
Enjoy her video peeps..
Enjoy her video peeps..
Crossing off wishlist: Homer's renovation
Alhamdulillah..
This year both Love and I received abundance of extra rezeki from the Almighty. Hence we decided to do a little something for Homer.
Before Raya, we managed to do the awning outside.
Cost us RM4k all in.
Next round afrer raya in shaa Allah, the gate and tiles outside. Whee!!
This year both Love and I received abundance of extra rezeki from the Almighty. Hence we decided to do a little something for Homer.
Before Raya, we managed to do the awning outside.
Cost us RM4k all in.
Next round afrer raya in shaa Allah, the gate and tiles outside. Whee!!
Selamat Hari Raya everyoneeee!!
Selamat Hari Raya to all my readers. Please forgive me for all the wrong doings.
Raya has been fun! Grandmother was back to her house after almost 3 weeks staying with us on Raya eve. So, first day is the usual. Except.. without Datuk around. Our first Raya without him. Al fatihah to Datuk.
Went back to Kuala Selangor on second day Raya. Couldn't make it last year because both dad and Love were worried of the fact that I was due anytime. I would say it is a wise decision that I listened to them both.
Third day raya well spent at Batai with the relatives.
Started working on the 4th day of Raya.. macam loser busy marking whole day. But back on leave 5th day Raya for a date with Love.
Wanted to play mini putt at citta mall but it is no longer operational, boo. Ended up watching ant man which was fun!
Loving my raya this year. Very grateful to the Almighty to have spend it with my loved ones. Hope yours went well too, peeps!
Raya has been fun! Grandmother was back to her house after almost 3 weeks staying with us on Raya eve. So, first day is the usual. Except.. without Datuk around. Our first Raya without him. Al fatihah to Datuk.
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| Purple vs orange |
Third day raya well spent at Batai with the relatives.
Started working on the 4th day of Raya.. macam loser busy marking whole day. But back on leave 5th day Raya for a date with Love.
Wanted to play mini putt at citta mall but it is no longer operational, boo. Ended up watching ant man which was fun!
Loving my raya this year. Very grateful to the Almighty to have spend it with my loved ones. Hope yours went well too, peeps!
Wednesday, July 1, 2015
Your brain is being rewired for happiness
Grandmother stayed with us for the night as she fell down couple of days ago.
I was not in my best mood. Works are piling up, need a leave badly. How sadddd.. not being able to be next to her all the time.
In office, and googled "hypnotize happy".
Found this... totally worth of your 2 minutes.
Slightly happier now.
Back to work. Be safe, everybody!
I was not in my best mood. Works are piling up, need a leave badly. How sadddd.. not being able to be next to her all the time.
In office, and googled "hypnotize happy".
Found this... totally worth of your 2 minutes.
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| Click this link for your 2 minutes happiness booster |
Slightly happier now.
Back to work. Be safe, everybody!
Monday, June 29, 2015
Ok, so you're popular..
At times facebook can be depressing.
Like the aftermath of Pilihanraya made me leave the country with no Internet connection, found total bliss.
And these couple of days my news feed is flooded with a "diva" as what he called himself and a restaurant near my in law's house called Menate. Story went like this.. This diva asked which place to go for a steak. And a girl suggested this "Menate" restaurant. He thought the girl insulted him by calling him "menate" as in binatang/animal. And condemned the girl with words that for me the worst I read in my entire life. When he was being explained what she meant, being a sore loser, started to say that the place is not his level. He only ate at Chili's and Nando's (which by the way not even a steak house and not even in Menate's level). Even came out with a viral video condemning that place when pointed out that the chef used to cook for the Queen of England.
Merepek ok.
Reminded me of a story that I believe I should clarify.
Not long ago, my university invited a famous actress to give a talk to our uni. Title nya, "From zero to hero." Which we all did not understand the relevance. Did not agree as well.
The day came, and this beautiful actress did not turn up. Which we did not bother pun sebab she was being replaced by a very wonderful speaker instead.
The next day, she went hysterical via facebook and instagram blaming our university that she did not at all agree to be part of the whole event. She never made aware of it and basically tarnish our name with her childish status.
The following day, her PA later apologized, saying that the communication breakdown was on their part. The actress deleted all her status. Never apologized. And later after the PA's status became crazy with the netizens anger, the PA just deleted the status as well just like that.
Merepek ok.
Celebrities.. you are not God, for God's sake. We don't expect you to know everything. Menate is a small restaurant, we don't expect you to know. Our uni's invitation might be insignificant compared to your super hectic schedule, we understand.
It's ok to do mistakes.
All you need to do is admit them and move on.
The world is round you know. You can at least have my respect. But rather you chose me to boycott your tudung product. Hehe..
K.. post emo dah banyak kali nak tulis, only now tak tahan sgt. Sorry for the emo post guys!
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