Fight for your love

You know that song by Cheryl Cole "Fight for this love", that part..

"We gotta fight, fight, fight, fight, fight for this love" (Repeats three annoying times with voice that is too high to reach the low note)

Don't get me wrong. I love her. She's so smoking hot and the song is good, i mean, her voice is good also, just maybe not for that type of song.

Well, anyway, i'm not here to talk about her.

As most of you already know by now, I've been together with Love for almost 9 years now. From high school, now we're married. And people would say, "Owhh.. they are so lucky, they found each other that early."

But did we know for sure that we would marry each other a couple of years ago? No.

Things were rough for us. We didn't have it easy.

Sometimes, we took each other for granted. At times I was too obsessed with work that I chose to ignore him. Other times he was too obsessed with well, hot stuff like Cheryl Cole.

You know, when everything screws up, you can either do two things:
1. Tell yourself that he's not the one. Blame it on him. Or blame it on the timing. It's your choice.
2. Give it a time and hold on to it for a while.

If you choose number 1, that's the end of it.

If you choose number 2, you have to set your boundaries. How long you have to hold on, and when to let go. You have to know when to let go. If you hold on, and he comes back to you, expect that everything will change. You've to change, he has to change, or else, wait for it coming back 2 years from now.

I got so touchy when it comes to breaking up. Because I've been there and it hurts like hell.

But what i learned from every break up is that it happens for a very good purpose in the end. Or else I wouldn't be happily married with the love of my life.

"Anything that's worth having
Is sure enough worth fighting for
Quitting's out of the question
When it gets tough, gotta fight some more."