Saturday, August 28, 2010

Date night

Sometimes, when some people got married they became.. well.. no longer exciting! They just "disappear" and that was not what we wanted our marriage life to be.

We want to have as much fun as we want, and not using the word marriage as an excuse, but using it as even more reasons to have fun.

Due to that, we happily said "yes" whenever our friends asked us to hang out with them. We went to sahur all the way to PJ at 3 am with Sir, we went through a heavy traffic to buka with our friends after work at KLCC, we had so much fun.

But last week, we realized, we hardly go out together anymore. Just the two of us. On a date, like we always did before married. Always pun with friends or family and if just the two of us, went shopping for groceries. How not flattering!!

So, we decided to go out on a date night, buka puasa together, at Alamanda je since it was the eve of Nuzul Quran, we were expecting traffic to be heavy. BUT both of us got so excited with the idea (sounds pathetic, huh?) that for that two days, our messages would always end with "So excited to go out with you on Thursday!!!"




And dinner was super fun. Just the two of us. Reminiscing on how fun we were, those days after SPM, working as waiter and waitresses in restaurant like this.

Then, we were wondering what to do, when Love came up with a brilliant idea, "Let's go to Arcade!!"

Hahahahaha. As funny as it sounded, we spent a lot of exciting times playing games in tha arcade before we were married. Of course, I think that we were the only married couple there who played laser gun like nobody else's business there.

I don't feel like we're married at all until..



He went to pay zakat for the first time for me.

Snapped back into reality. This is how married life, anyway.. That one simple ordinary date that you had before you're married is the one you really asked for after you're married. So for those yang belum kahwin, do enjoy the moment where you wonder, "What to do this weekend? Same thing, same place, same stuff?"

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