Recently, Love and I had a conversation on "The power of letting go". Since, we sometimes encounter situations where I wanna be alone, he wants me to follow him for futsal. He wants to stay in the office, I want him to come home early, so we deciced to take a day off of being a husband and wife last Friday.
Taking "the power of letting go" for the best of us. :)
His idea of single life was going jamming with his friend.
My idea of single life was to be all by myself doing things i love.
I went for a spa in the morning. Then, shop for kuih raya in Alamanda. Learned to cook ayam masak kicap and kangkung belacan from mum. Learned to cook Korean pancake from mum-in-law. Clean our room and toilet sampai berkilat. And later in the evening and the whole night.. working! Loser gile!! But I have to, else I won't enjoy my raya.
Love thought it was funny, whatever I was doing on our day off. He insisted to send me anywhere I want to go to lepak with my friends, but I don't like going out while fasting. It's tiring. Plus, I barely had time to do all the stuff mentioned above whenever he's around. Because we always have plans.
My friend thought I was crazy to allow him to have a day off like that.
But I think both of us needed that every once in a while.
He messaged me when he arrived at his friend's house, "Sayangku!! Weee!! I dah sampai rumah A*** dah k? Muahhhh!! Love u sayang!! U're the best wife a husband could ask for tau!! Weeee!!! Love u!!"
See.. I beleived when u let go.. both of u can come back and love each other even more.
Like a holiday break.
U're more energetic to work after your break, aren't u? (Ok, at least for me.)
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